A democracy is a polity where citizenship is understood to be as important as leadership, where the voluntary worker is as highly valued as the paid official. Paritocracy occurs when women and men become true partners in citizenship and leadership, sharing equal responsibilities in government and administration, parliament and political parties, the judiciary and the media, and over public revenue and expenditure.
Parity democracy (democratie paritaire) is an end in itself, to bring to bear on public affairs the intelligence and creativity, the courage and integrity, the kindness and compassion, and the enthusiasm and industry of both halves of humankind. It is also a means to a world where every girl, as well as every boy, from Afghanistan to ex-Zaire, receives adequate nutrition, secondary education, and the expectation of gainful employment and an independent income; to a world where women and girls enjoy freedom from violence and from the fear of violence; and a world where elderly women and widows, both old and young, enjoy their full human rights.
The Council for Parity Democracy was founded as Women & Men by Raymond Lloyd in Rome on 8 March 1980. In 1986 I began working out of London, in 1991 from Westminster, at 19 Mulready House, Herrick Street, London SW1P 4JL tel + 44 20 7834 1309 email shequality@gmail.com. Since 1997, the Council has published a monthly newsletter, The Parity Democrat (ISSN 1367-6946), uploaded from Issue No 1 of January 1997 onward. There are some 800 downloadable text files on this site, from 1 to 118 pages, representing 30 years of fulltime voluntary research. It may be easier to save large files to disk, before opening them. Narratives were in Times 11 font, but since 2009 have been in Verdana 10, a font created to be read more easily on computer monitors. Tabulations remain in Courier New 8 font, both narratives and tables in Microsoft Word (.doc) format. The whole site is currently 200 MB in size, and may be downloaded free with a website copier such as the 3.4 MB HTTrack-3.43-7, freeware downloadable from www.httrack.com. Indeed I would encourage friends and readers both to download it for its unique databases, and to update it every few weeks.
More recently, to illustrate narratives of work and travel, recounted in monthly issues of The Parity Democrat, I have uploaded on to a separate site, at http://shequality.spaces.live.com, some 6000 photos, in 300 albums, taken on journeys in England and to Austria, Belgium, Cambodia, China, Croatia, Czech Republic, Denmark, Finland, France, Hungary, India, Ireland, Italy, Germany, Japan, Latvia, Lithuania, Luxembourg, Malaysia, Malta, Moldova, Morocco, Netherlands, Norway, Poland, Portugal, Qatar, Romania, Russia, Singapore, Slovenia, Slovakia, Spain, Sweden, Thailand, Turkey, Ukraine, the USA and Wales, some 40 of the 221 states and territories visited in my lifetime to promote development, democracy and women's advancement. The present site incorporates some ten unique promotional databases, still in part to be uploaded, comprising

- 3000 major anniversaries of the democracies, annually, to 2020
- 1000 anniversaries of women's empowerment, annually, to 2010
- 6000 centenaries of distinguished women of history, annually, to 2060
- 3000 birthdays of distinguished living women from 180 countries
- 600 recent heads of state and other women leaders in 220 countries
- 300 past heads of state and other women leaders
- 5000 able women proposed as heads of international bodies
- 500 flowers and wines named after distinguished women
- 500 coins and banknotes portraying women, and
- 2400 press questions on democracy and women's empowerment
The following pages show an evolution in my work over the past fifty years in both substance and form. My work for democracy began in 1956 when I flew to Vienna to volunteer for the International Red Cross relief operation on behalf of 200 000 Hungarians fleeing soviet communism. Subsequent work for Algerians taking refuge from European colonialism showed that the refugees were often better off materially than their host populations in Morocco and Tunisia. In 1961 therefore I began working for third world development, only to find in the 1970s that much modernization made women worse off, as men received machinery and credit while women were left with drudgery and subsistence. I then began the first international programme for rural women's advancement, financing it with the first world coin issue in monetary history. But by 1980 I realized that the UN system, through which I worked, had become as unaccountable as the 100 of its (then) 150 member governments which imprisoned, tortured or murdered their civilian opponents. At the age of 45 I resigned to work on my own, for women's empowerment more generally, for inclusive democracy, and for the restoration of political integrity to the international community.
I have long realized that the substance of such work would bring neither acknowledgement nor appreciation, so the past three decades have been those of finding ways in which I could get across my suggestions. This first entailed building up databases of Democracy, Distinguished Women, and Women Leaders (see Navigation Panel at left), on which I could make my Proposals. In 1980 these went first in circular letters to foreign ministers, UN agency heads, central banks and postal administrations, none of which letters have yet been posted. In 1987 I began work on some 128 individual letters to citizens and leaders in the democracies, the last 28 of which, and 20 earlier, are on the Letters page. From 1994 on I have spent more time on some 200 Conference Papers, outlining research proposals on democracy and women's advancement, for almost every major meeting I attended. And since 1998 I have persisted with (2400) Questions at these and other meetings, based on suggestions made earlier, particularly on how anniversaries and centenaries can be used to consolidate and enhance inclusive democracy and women's advancement, or promote lustration and reconciliation.
Most Frequent Downloads:
232 Major Anniversaries of the Democracies in 2010 http://www.shequality.org/D2010.doc
Major Anniversaries of the Democracies 2010-2020 http://www.shequality.org/D2010-2020.doc
http://www.shequality.org/1000 Questions on Democracy.doc
50- & 100-year Anniversaries of 188 Distinguished Women of History in 2010 http://www.shequality.org/2010.doc
50- & 100-year Anniversaries of 3000 Distinguished Women of History 2010-2036 http://www.shequality.org/2010-2036.doc
http://www.shequality.org/3000 Birthdays of Distinguished Living Women in 2010.doc
http://www.shequality.org/Celebrating Major American Anniversaries in 2009.doc
http://www.shequality.org/Celebrating Major British Anniversaries in 2010.doc
http://www.shequality.org/Celebrating Women Artists 2010.doc
Women Leaders throughout the World List 74 of 3 May 2005 with 586 names.doc
http://www.shequality.org/Women Heads for International Bodies Lists 90-1 Aug 82 - May 05.doc
Women on Banknotes - Queens, Heroines, Educators, Artists (Illustrated).doc
http://www.shequality.org/Reference Sources for Women's Birthdays & Centenaries 2009.doc
Uploads in past six months:
26 August Paper for 67th Venice Film Festival http://www.shequality.org/Celebrating Older Actresses 2010.doc
24 August Paper for 12th Venice Architecture Biennale http://www.shequality.org/Women, Inclusive Democracy, Venice & Architecture.doc
22 August Questions in Eindhoven http://www.shequality.org/Eindhoven 15-21 August 2010.doc
10 August Paper for Eindhoven Swimming Paralympics http://www.shequality.org/Paralympic World Swimming Championships Eindhoven 2010.doc
7 August The Parity Democrat http://www.shequality.org/No 165 September 2010.doc
24 July Questions at Farnborough Airshow http://www.shequality.org/Farnborough 19-25 July 2010.doc
13 July Paper for Farnborough International Airshow http://www.shequality.org/Celebrating Women Aviators Farnborough 2010.doc
2 July The Parity Democrat http://www.shequality.org/No 164 August 2010.doc
27 June Questions for G8/G20 summits http://www.shequality.org/Toronto June 2010.doc
25 June Paper for G8/G20 summits in Canada http://www.shequality.org/2. G20 26-27 June 2010 Toronto.doc
11 June Questions at EU Meeting http://www.shequality.org/Zaragoza 8-9 June 2010.doc
4 June The Parity Democrat http://www.shequality.org/No 163 July 2010.doc
3 June Paper for Conference on Trans-European Transport Networks http://www.shequality.org/39. June 2010 Zaragoza and Brussels.doc
25 May http://www.shequality.org/10th 100 Questions on Women's Advancement.doc
24 May Paper for Paralympics http://www.shequality.org/Paralympic World Cup Manchester 2010.doc
19 May Questions at EBRD meeting http://www.shequality.org/Zagreb EBRD 13-15 May 2010.doc
10 May Paper for EBRD meeting http://www.shequality.org/12. 14-15 May 2010 Zagreb Croatia.doc
5 May The Parity Democrat http://www.shequality.org/No 162 June 2010.doc
7 April The Parity Democrat http://www.shequality.org/No 161 May 2010.doc
6 April Paper for London Book Fair http://www.shequality.org/Celebrating Women Writers 2010.doc
5 April The Parity Democrat http://www.shequality.org/No 160 April 2010.doc
27 February Questions at Milan Tourism Exchange http://www.shequality.org/Milan BIT 18-21 February 2010.doc
9 February http://www.shequality.org/Celebrating Women, Art and Democracy in Italy 2010-2012.doc
8 February The Parity Democrat http://www.shequality.org/No 159 March 2010.doc
http://www.shequality.org/5. Germany Travel Show 9 Feb 2010.doc
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